There's an old joke that the most sadistic thing to say to a masochist when they ask you to hurt them is 'No'.
Like most jokes that aren't really jokes, there's an element of truth in that, despite it getting almost everything wrong about the subject matter.
Sadism and masochism are more complicated and nuanced than just different reactions to different ends of the whip. And pleasure and pain denial can be a part of some people's kinks.
But really, the most important thing is that you understand that the most sadistic thing to say to a masochist is spoilers.
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